A context in which time is a commodity – as happened during and post industrialisation – efficiency and productivity are goals in themselves and activities that don’t adhere are seen as undesirable and problematic. Thus we get labels such as procrastination, lack of commitment, instability, flakiness or simply laziness.

A context in which, for whatever cultural reasons, men are dissuaded from expressing the full range of human emotions, will naturally lead to limited expressions. For some, the range is so

Change, resistance and loss

In my previous post I wrote about the various factors that I believe make up psychotherapy and their contribution to its success.

Successful therapy is a subjective concept and hard to measure, it depends on what people say about how they feel.  Often, people come to therapy because they want to feel good and therapy can help in achieving that. Aside from feeling good, therapy has another purpose, to help people